A native Pittsburgher residing in O’Hara Township, on ancestral land of the Seneca culture, and a graduate of the University of Pittsburgh, Heather has spent the last 28 years serving women as a labor and postpartum doula and formerly founded Pittsburgh Doula Network, a postpartum doula service. In 2016, a dear friend and repeat postpartum client lost her second child, Madeline, to stillbirth. After witnessing the profound loss and grief, her eyes were opened to the silent tragedies women and families were experiencing all around her and how ill-equipped most people, including herself, were in handling it.
“Although I had been a birth worker for 20 years, I realized I knew practically nothing about perinatal loss. A lot of the things I thought I knew were wrong. I wanted to know what quality bereavement care meant, what the research said, and find a way to open up this taboo topic of babies dying because families were suffering greatly- and silently. When someone you care about is going through the worst possible tragedy, you want them to be getting the best help and know how you can be a good friend to someone who has been forever changed by the loss of their baby. I wanted to provide quality care and start with making these births special and help parents create their child’s legacy.”
~ Heather Bradley
The idea of providing free labor and postpartum doula care was her immediate response to serving these families. After devoting time to research and education, Heather became proficient in perinatal loss support and launched Pittsburgh Bereavement Doulas in August 2018. She is trained through Resolve Through Sharing as a perinatal bereavement coordinator, a certified Compassionate Bereavement Care provider and a certified Baby Loss Family Advisor /Baby Loss Doula and trainer, having found a wonderful mentor and friend in Sherokee Ilse. She is a Count the Kicks advocate and also is certified as a Pregnancy Loss Group Facilitator through The Institute for the Study of Birth, Breath and Death Recently, she joined Allegheny County FIMR (Fetal and Infant Mortality Review) as part of the Case Review Team. She is very passionate about sharing her knowledge with care providers and doulas so that loss families receive the best care on the most difficult day of their life.
In her free time, she loves planning her next travel adventure with her partner Andrew, spending time with her four children, cooking, baking bread, sewing, reading non-fiction, and gardening.
Leaders ask questions. Rebellious leadership is about asking the right ones, such as 'who needs to act' and 'what needs to be done to make this better'. The Silent Rebellion highlights the leaders of those communities, like Pittsburgh Bereavement Doulas, and how they make a difference as modern leaders.
O'Hara based Pittsburgh Bereavement Doulas host evening to remember the 'little ones gone too soon'. [Read article]
Light and Unite in Aspinwall remembers babies on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day [Read article]
Termination for Medical Reasons [Read article]
Video of our 4th Annual Light & Unite
Pittsburgh Bereavement Doulas embraces parents through loss of a baby. [Read Article]
Stigma and support — A conversation with a Pittsburgh bereavement doula [Click here to listen.]
Video of our 1st Annual Light and Unite, October 15, 2019.
Bereavement doulas help grieving families with pregnancy loss [Read Article]
Bereavement doulas support families dealing with the loss of a baby. [Read Article]
O'Hara woman's bereavement doulas group supports families experience loss. [Read Article]
For more than 20 years, it’s been my joy as a birth doula to be present at the arrival of 200+ babies. It’s a privilege to partner with families as they welcome the newest member of their families.
Unfortunately, not all pregnancies end in joy. I believe, however, that all pregnancies should bring blessing. Feeling helpless as a witness to the suffering of loss among clients, friends and family, I decided to find answers to the questions no one wants to ask:
Along the way, I’ve realized that not only do our friends and families struggle with these questions, our medical professionals do too.
I founded Pittsburgh Bereavement Doulas to serve those experiencing loss, to educate and inspire those providing their care and to change the way our society interacts with these families.
Together, we will remove the stigma of loss.
~ Heather Bradley
"In modern society, so many are disconnected from experiencing the power of life’s most intense thresholds, the power of birth and death. So many women never witness childbirth until it is directly upon them, until they themselves are in labor. Death, like, birth, is often cordoned off into anonymous hospital rooms. Yet much wisdom exists in directly witnessing the transformative energies present in these thresholds."
– Amy Wright Glenn